I don’t buy it.
If you want to meet someone who is a good match for you, you have to be ready, you have to really want it.
You have to open your eyes, open your mind and open your heart.
You have to be willing to let yourself be vulnerable and you have to be willing to love someone for who they are.
It can take a lot of time. It can be a lot of work. And it can be a lot of fun.
It can be a lot of pain. It’s not for everyone.
You kiss a lot of frogs in the process. And those frogs might even think you’re a frog.
To say you are picky sounds to me like you are looking for perfection.
That’s not being picky.