It’s complacency, lack of courage, and fear that keep us stuck where we are Start taking small steps towards the life you want.  Talk to a friend in another department about a transfer.  Invite a new colleague to join you for lunch. Ask the waiter to take the burnt lamb chop back to the kitchen for the rare one as you requested. Small steps lead to larger steps.  Courage builds up over time, especially when your courage has positive results….