I was sitting with a CEO of a small chemical company over lunch yesterday. It’s someone I’ve known for a while.  One of his VPs was there and told us their best sales rep  was quitting and going to work for the competition. His answer: “why didn’t I know about this?” The VP told him he tried to tell him before, but the CEO  was too busy, in  meetings, or rushing out to pick up his kids. He told him,…