Nice is the last thing I wanted to be when I first started in the consulting business.  I wanted to be known as tough, bright and sharp.  Nor did I want to be a “nice guy” when I was a university student.  I hated it when girls said that about me.  It was like a rejection. But now, I think it’s one of the best things that can be said about people.  I have nice friends.  That’s why they are…